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12 Reasons Why Constructive Feedback is A Critical Skill for Engineering Managers + Technical Leaders

12 Reasons Why Constructive Feedback is A Critical Skill for Engineering Managers + Technical Leaders

When you’re an engineering manager or technical leader, providing clear and effective constructive feedback to your team is critical to your overall effectiveness and success!

This eye-opening episode is packed with valuable insights for engineering managers who want to create a feedback-rich environment that drives innovation, fosters growth, and delivers exceptional project outcomes.

We’ll explore the 12 consequential outcomes of not providing constructive feedback to your team - from missed learning opportunities and stagnant individual growth, to diminished team dynamics and reduced productivity.

You’ll also discover how avoiding negative feedback kills employee engagement, leads to increased turnover, weakens manager-employee relationships - as well as its negative impact on organizational culture, accountability, and alignment with goals.

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How Should You Respond When An Employee Resigns? | Leadership Training for Engineering Managers

How Should You Respond When An Employee Resigns? | Leadership Training for Engineering Managers

What to do when your top-performing employee resigns: A guide to handling their departure with professionalism and grace.

Managing employee turnover is a common challenge for engineering managers - and anyone who manages people. Employees come and go, and replacing them is part of the job. However, when a highly valuable member of your team announces their departure, it can be particularly challenging.

It is crucial to handle this situation with care, considering various factors and ensuring minimal impact on the team and the departing employee

Understanding the reasons why good employees leave and knowing how to respond is essential. In some cases, employee departures are straightforward, with reasonable performers who are easily replaceable or contractors for whom turnover is expected.

However, what do you do when the one person you least want to lose from your team informs you of their departure? This is a difficult experience for any team leader, as it requires careful consideration of multiple aspects. As a leader, your responsibility is to mitigate any lasting negative effects on the team and the departing employee.

This video explains 5 most constructive actions you should take to make sure your team stays focused, productive, and positive during this transition period.

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How to Convince a Top Performing Employee to Stay After Resigning | Advice for Engineering Managers

How to Convince a Top Performing Employee to Stay After Resigning | Advice for Engineering Managers

When one of your top performing engineers gives their notice, it creates a negative impact on your team’s productivity and morale - and it creates many issues that you don’t have time for either, like hiring, onboarding, and training their replacement without missing a beat.

If one of your top performers just gave their notice, don’t panic - in this video, I explain how you can convince them to stay, without even getting HR involved!

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How to Make Sure People Listen and Understand You | Leadership Training for Engineering Managers

How to Make Sure People Listen and Understand You | Leadership Training for Engineering Managers

Engineering managers and technology leaders can’t afford communication breakdowns in the workplace. Most miscommunications in engineering can be prevented by a simple active listening technique for making sure their directions are communicated clearly - as well as effectively received by the listener!

In this episode, you’ll learn

Why most miscommunications and misunderstandings happen in engineering - or anywhere

A 2-way listening technique (empathic listening) for making sure you understood what they said, and vice/versa

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Why Engineers Struggle with Confidence and Speaking Up At Work | Improving Your Confidence

Why Engineers Struggle with Confidence and Speaking Up At Work | Improving Your Confidence

If you’re an engineer who struggles with confidence, imposter syndrome, self-expression, leadership, or setting boundaries - there’s a good chance you’re not looking in the right place for the solution.

John Chao is a Perspective Coach with a background in HR with global aerospace engineering companies - and in this video, he shares insights on why most engineers struggle in these areas, how it impacts your career, and what you can do about it!

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How to Give Constructive Feedback Without the Stress | Leadership Training for Engineers

How to Give Constructive Feedback Without the Stress | Leadership Training for Engineers

As an engineering leader, you need to make sure every engineer on your team does the job right - which means you have to give constructive feedback and deliver your message in a way that influences, motivates, and inspires the engineer to WANT to improve their performance.

This is a critical skill for engineering managers, yet most engineering managers don’t know how to give constructive feedback to employees or peers - or they avoid it all together because it’s uncomfortable - which allows the problems to continue.

In this video, I’m going to explain where most engineering managers go wrong - with respect to giving effective constructive feedback. You’re also going to learn a simple framework for giving constructive feedback in a way that actually gets results - and without the stress!

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Moving From Individual Contributor to Managing Remote Team of Engineers | Interview Vince Marvin

Moving From Individual Contributor to Managing Remote Team of Engineers | Interview Vince Marvin

Moving from individual contributor into your first leadership role is challenging enough by itself - but when you’re managing an entirely remote team of engineers that’s based in different time zones throughout the country adds another layer of complexities in your first 90 days.

Check out this interview with Vince Marvin to hear his story and learn how he overcame these challenges.

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